解釋
◎ 禮尚往來(lái) lǐshàngwǎnglái
[courtesy demands reciprocity; deal with sb. as he deals with you; pay sb. back in his own coin] 在禮節(jié)上注重有來(lái)有往,借指用對(duì)方對(duì)待自己的態(tài)度和方式去對(duì)待對(duì)方
禮尚往來(lái),往而不來(lái),非禮也;來(lái)而不往,亦非禮也。——《禮記·曲禮上》
引用解釋
謂禮以相互往來(lái)為貴?!抖Y記·曲禮上》:“太上貴德,其次務(wù)施報(bào),禮尚往來(lái),往而不來(lái),非禮也;來(lái)而不往,亦非禮也?!?宋 計(jì)有功 《唐詩(shī)紀(jì)事·李昂》:“ 權(quán) ( 李權(quán) )拱而前曰:‘夫禮尚往來(lái),來(lái)而不往,非禮也。鄙文不臧,既得而聞矣,而執(zhí)事昔有雅什,嘗聞於道路,愚將切磋可乎?’”